LGBTQ Religious Trauma, Running from the Shards of God
- emikochibana
- Sep 14, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 5
Religious trauma is a significant issue for many individuals within the LGBTQ+ community. Those raised in deeply religious environments, where beliefs such as "humans are inherently sinful, and LGBTQ identity contradicts natural law" are emphasized, often grapple with profound feelings of self-denial and a diminished sense of self-worth. This inner turmoil frequently leads to significant mental health struggles.
When we reflect on the core principles of religion—teachings that emphasize God’s love, mutual respect, and the dignity of each person—it can feel disheartening for many to notice a contradiction between these values and certain religious doctrines. Historically, various religions, including Christianity, have been used as political tools to exert control and maintain societal order. With this context and the shifts occurring over time, there is now a growing movement among Christian psychologists to reexamine traditional interpretations of the Bible. The focus is on nurturing faith that is rooted in compassion and the inclusive love that Christ originally taught.
At the same time, we must acknowledge the emotional reactions that arise among many Christians when confronted with these evolving ideas. Feelings of resistance or resentment are common, as change can challenge deeply held beliefs, particularly those that people have adhered to at great personal sacrifice, i.e., those who denied their children in the name of God. This natural resistance to change plays a significant role in the ongoing lack of understanding toward LGBTQ individuals within many Christian communities, contributing to emotional and spiritual pain for LGBTQ members, often within their own families.
This book seeks to unravel the complex history of religious doctrine, much like how Galileo faced condemnation from the Church for advocating heliocentrism. Through episodes and humor, we explore how ideas, once considered absolute truths, have evolved dramatically over time. By presenting these shifts, the hope is to offer solace to LGBTQ individuals struggling with religious trauma, as well as to their families, with the aspiration that they may one day return to a state of peace, acceptance, and understanding.
In spiritual discourse, it is often said that "there are no coincidences, and everything unfolds according to God's greater plan." If we allow the natural flow of life to take its course, the true nature of things will eventually reveal itself. While some may argue that LGBTQ identities contradict natural law, I personally find it difficult to accept this view, especially in light of the vast number of LGBTQ individuals around the world. It seems implausible to suggest that their existence is not part of God’s will or a natural phenomenon. Of course, there will always be those who hold opposing views. While we strive to understand everything, it’s important to recognize that not everything can be fully grasped—and that’s okay. Some things are simply beyond our comprehension.
Is it possible for us to bridge our differences and find reconciliation?
We all share a common humanity regardless of our faith, identity, or experiences. While we may never fully agree on every issue, it is possible to build mutual understanding rooted in love and respect. By embracing the beauty in our differences, rather than focusing on them, we can work toward a world where "disagreement" does not equate to "division." Ultimately, we all seek understanding, healing, and connection. In this shared journey, we can strive to walk together in peace and mutual respect, even if we do not always agree.
I offer this book with my greatest hope that LGBTQ individuals and their families will find reconciliation and healing in their hearts and spirits.
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